was just watching a big bang theory episode and sheldon really hated the girl leonard wanted to date- some scientist girl. sheldon told penny why he was pissed, and penny said no matter what he should support leonard because he’s his friend, and if he was a good friend he would appreciate what makes leonard happy. then sheldon asked penny why leonard wouldn’t just not date the girl because of his hate for her, and penny said “because love always trumps hate”… best episode of my life, totally opened my eyes.
can’t stand this anymore, it’s like a tug o war on both my arms. it’s you, and them. you seem to think it’s you and her, but it’s you and them. maybe it wouldn’t be as bad, actually it wouldn’t be nearly as bad if it was you and only her, but it’s not.